Inappropriate Behavior in Autism

Green choices and red choices. You get to decide. I was recently asked by a friend, who teaches social skills to young people with autism, how we have dealt with inappropriate behavior in our son Monty, now aged 17. The short answer was “we have not had to”. The longer answer is more complex. First of all, you have to figure out what kind of “Inappropriate Behavior” is in question. I consider lots of natural behavior in autism to be inappropriate - stimming, flapping, scripting, the obsessive desire for sameness and repetition and an apparent aversion to following rules and instructions, for some people. Of course, I guessed what the immediate question was actually about - sexually inappropriate behavior, this time in a 12-year-old boy. These issues have been raised in the comments section of this blog on many occasions. The underlying problem is not something that developed at puberty, it is just a consequence of what has happened (or rather, not ...